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    October Newsletter 

National Preparedness Month

Are You Ready?

Our Martha tips for this month focus on “Preparedness.”  You probably didn’t realize it, but September was National Preparedness Month.  I guess I wasn’t very prepared for that seeing that it is now October.  Anyway, we were urged to get our “Emergency” supply kits ready.  Is this really necessary?  If you’ve got a reasonably organized “Smart Martha” home you know exactly where to get what you need in a very short time.  Let’s try it!

 KISERS!  THERE IS A HURRICANE OR TORNADO OR EARTHQUAKE COMING! 
            “Oh, No! Seth, you take the little guys to the hallway in the center of our home. (We don’t have a basement).  JP, You fill a pitcher with water (or not, if we have some bottled water).  Joseph, you gather the flashlights. I’ll grab some blankets.  And Keith, (my spouse) grab the radio from the laundry room and some extra batteries. I’ll get my cell phone and laptop.  Everyone meet in the hallway!” 

            You’ve got food—at least a week’s worth if your pantry is anything like mine,  some water, and your first aid kit is ready and fully stocked.  If this doesn’t cover it, there probably isn’t a better way to prepare. 

            Now that I’ve let you off the hook regarding the “Emergency Preparedness Kit,” I want to encourage you to be prepared for some other kinds of disasters.  I want to give you some suggestions of things you actually should do to be prepared for other disasters. 

      What if your spouse suddenly passed away?  Would you know where to find all your financial information, including all retirement savings?  How about all the insurance info? 

       At a recent seminar, when I was talking about your “Important Files,” ( The files which contain vital information—such as insurance info, deeds, birth certificates, health records, etc.)  a woman suggested that each family made sure that they had back-up copies of these important records stored away someplace.  She said that she had copies of these important documents sealed in a manila envelope and stored at her best friend’s house.  In case of a fire, flood, or landslide, you could see how a safe copy of these papers would save you many headaches. 

        Now I’ve had a fireproof safe in my home for such an emergency, but I hate to admit that the contents of the safe were sparse.   So, I took this suggestion from this Smart Martha and made a few copies to be stored in the safe.  I feel much more secure already. . . And for those of you who don’t know where any of these important papers are now in your house or you have a spouse who doesn’t, just talking this over with your spouse and deciding which ones need to be copied and where these are stored is an important exercise.

Copiers, Credit Cards, and Passwords

      Here is another great tip that has saved me so much time: if you need a printer for your computer, make sure you purchase one with a copier.  I bought another one of these printer/copiers last week, and I only paid around $30 for it at Walmart.  And to save money on ink: 

1)    Only print in black and white, except for special reasons. Tell your kids to only print in black and white.  This is an option when you go to print your paper.  It may take some figuring out.  On my print preview page it is called grayscale.  

2)                 Don’t buy new ink cartridges. Get them refilled.  Most cities have stores that sell only refilled cartridges for a fraction of the cost of a new cartridge.   

 

"My Purse is gone!"

            Back to “Preparedness.”  Last month a good friend of mine came by my house in a state of panic and tears.  She put her purse down to put something in her car and forgot it.  When she went back to look for it, it was gone.  It didn’t take us very long to find the phone numbers of all her banks and credit cards and the cell phone company in order to call them to cancel all of these services, but if she had had a list of all of these together somewhere, it could have been a little simpler with less panic.  Luckily, my friend had just a few credit cards.(Another good reason to keep just a few credit cards.)  Another Smart Martha at one of my seminars had this suggestion to keep track of credit cards. She said that she simply lined up all her credit cards that were in her purse on a copier and copied both front and back.  This simple step takes less than a couple of minutes.  You could make two copies and keep one in your important files and one in your fireproof safe.

  What About Mary?

            This month’s newsletter is heavy with the “Martha” tips.  Where is Mary of Bethany this month in the midst of us getting our house in order?  Hopefully we are still taking time to sit at Jesus’ feet.  And Jesus is still in our home waiting for us to speak to him.

 Did you talk to him this morning when you got out of bed?  Did you sit and have a cup of coffee with him before he went to work?  Did you hold him in your arms when he had a grumpy awakening?  Did you help him pour his milk on his cereal?  Did you go on a walk with him?  Did you let him drive home from school then help him with his science project?  Did you cook him dinner and enjoy a nice conversation with him?  Did you tuck him into bed and kiss him on the cheek?   

 We weren’t always sitting at Jesus’ feet, but we were always there with him—even in the midst of copying life insurance documents. 

The month of October is the month of the Rosary.  It is the perfect Mary of Bethany activity to do.   Like Mary of Bethany, we sit and think about Jesus.  When I pray the Rosary, my mind often begins to wander from Jesus to things like dishes!  I often say to myself, “Tami, quit being such a Martha—the “dishes” can wait.  Use this time to be with Jesus.”  This is why the Rosary is such a good prayer for me!  It pulls my attention back to Jesus and the events of his life.

In the remaining days of this month, let’s see what we can do to use this beautiful prayer more faithfully and fervently.  You might also try saying it with your family once a week.  This is what we try to do.  We gather every Sunday evening to say it together.  Sometimes this gets stale, and everyone seems sleepy or daydreaming.  When this happens, we try to talk a little more about each mystery before the decade is prayed.  Question your children: “What does this mystery mean to you?”  You will be surprised  at what your kids can come up with.  Pictures can also help keep the mystery in focus. Search at your Catholic bookstore for something new that will help your family to start out or to stay in focus.

 

"Too busy to pray?  Then you are too busy not to pray."

 

    It really is a paradox.  Put it all in Mary's hands and you will find your help.

 

Our Lady of the Rosary.

Pray for us.

Mary of Bethany.

Pray for us.

Martha of Bethany.

Really pray for us.

 


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 Identity Thieves Prayer Book

         Here is one final tip dealing with credit cards, banks, phones, etc.  I pay my bills and access these bank accounts quite frequently online.  This keeps me very informed of what money is going where.  Keeping track of all of these usernames and passwords has been somewhat tricky.  When I can, I use the same—which “they” say you shouldn’t do. Often times, however, the banks and credit card companies make you change them or use numbers, etc.  So, my solution to this problem is to write them down.  “Wait,” you say.   “You are not suppose to do this either!”  I know.  I know.  I am taking a big risk in telling you my secret, but I keep these on a page in a prayer book at my desk.  This way, I figure at least the thief might get a chance to pray before doing his evil deed.  Of course, any page on any book will do. 

 

Smart Martha's from Columbia, SC