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A Smart Martha Brief, But Helpful Reminder

November's Holiday Focus

I think everyone is "Focused" this month on the holidays. It's not the time to carry out any big cleaning projects. I wanted to give some simple suggestions that I use to help me keep the focus where I want it to be during these busy, but beautiful times.

8 Ways that Help Me Keep Advent

It’s time for Advent. I love this time of year, because for our family, it really is a time that we continually look for Christ. Our whole month is scheduled with this purpose in mind. (If only the rest of our year could be that focused.) Sure, our culture is bombarding us with a materialistic message, but I have found that this just illustrates man’s deeper desire for more. It’s like the Augustine message that “our hearts are restless until they rest in Christ.” Our culture desperately needs Christ and their hearts are searching. When our family sees this Society’s desire trying to be fulfilled with more and more “things,” or the “perfect holiday meal” or the “beautifully decorated house,” it can remind us of our own need for Christ. After all, haven’t we all tried (and still do try) to fulfill our needs in other ways besides Christ? And we know that these never fulfill. A great shopping trip, a new car, a busy schedule, or even a party with friends satisfies for a while, but we soon are found wanting again. The Society that we live in is the same way. Christmas is a time when perhaps people feel this desire more. So don’t let the Culture or Society’s desperate search to fulfill this need be a distraction to you. We can let it remind us of our own desire and our need for Christ to fulfill them. Remember: There but for the grace of God go I.

Keeping this in mind, however, I do try to minimize the hectic-holiday buying, partying, and decorating spree; and to have a more focused and meaningful Advent. I want to remember where my desire is fulfilled. I know that my family and I can get caught up in that holiday frenzy and lose everything that Advent can bring us. Here are some steps that our family takes every year during this time to achieve that:

1) Follow the Church and use Advent as a preparation and penitential time. It is not the birthday party; it is the preparation for the birthday party. Follow the guidelines and examples of the church. The color for the season is purple—which means a time of repentance. It is a little like Lent. The church doesn’t ask us to fast and abstain during this time like we do in Lent, but we are to keep in mind that we are preparing for the beautiful celebration of Christ’s coming. We should prepare our hearts.

Just like we don’t play the games or eat cake before the birthday party, so we should show some restraint during Advent. As much as I am able, I try to postpone as many Christmas parties as I can during this time period. (Nearly impossible when it depends on others, but I control the ones I can control.) If we are going to see “Christmas Lights”, we wait until during the 12 days of Christmas, (and they are not nearly as busy then!) We watch the Christmas specials, like Rudolph and Frosty, then. We eat our Christmas cookies and other great Christmas foods then. Have you noticed when your church puts out their Christmas decorations? Can you dare wait until a few days before Christmas to put out yours? Our new neighbors thought we were Jewish one year the weeks before Christmas because we had no Yuletide décor in our yard. In our Baptist -Southern neighborhood, I know they all just assume that the Kisers are just too busy to get those decorations out and procrastinate every year until just a few days before.

Unlike Lent, during Advent our family tends to really celebrate those given feast days as ways to prepare us for Christ’s coming. We learn from these saints; we honor Mary. Some families may follow a more penitential/strict type of Advent. We control what we can control and try to use all the other Christmas activities as a means to prepare us for Christ’s coming, like if the grandparents have to show up before Christmas to deliver their gifts—what a blessing to have such generous grandparents who love us!

2) Keep it simple! Sweetheart! You know it is the time of year when we have more activities, more programs, and more on our plate, despite our plans to try to reduce these Christmas activities. This means that we just need to try to simplify in other ways. Although I have a full calendar of Advent activities (which is posted on my webpage) I still simplify my schedule by postponing dentist appointments, making easier meals, suggesting that weekly or monthly meetings skip meeting in December, and foregoing any big time chores this month (like clean the carpet, clean out the attic, etc.).

3) Make a schedule, but know that everything is optional and interchangeable! You can see my schedule. For me, if I don’t schedule it, I won’t do it. I find that if I schedule something simple everyday, it really helps our family to remember that it is Advent. The types of activities that I plan help us to remember what Advent is all about. Use the church calendar and your family Advent traditions in your schedule and add some new or other activities around these. I write these activities out on little pieces of paper and these make up our Advent Calendar. Everyday, we flip over a picture and pull out one of the papers from the corresponding pocket. (I use the same ones every year with a little bit of switching around and adding a couple of new ones.)

4) Plan a family confession night. And I don’t mean that we are all going to confess to each other who left the sink on in the upstairs bathroom or who left the library book out on the patio to be rained upon. I mean find a place in your schedule when you all can go to confession together. Not everyone needs to see the priest for confession. That should be up to everyone’s own discretion. But everyone needs to go to at least pray in the church. (If they don’t need confession, perhaps they should pray for us who do.) Afterwards, plan something fun together—like going out for pizza.

5) Tradition! If you want these events to happen more easily, then begin to make these happen year after year. Tradition cuts out the planning step all together. And if you store the plans and “props” of the tradition, that makes it even easier. Think about if you had never put up a Christmas tree, and you just started your first one this year. You’d put time into planning when, where, who and how. Then, you’d have to go find all the “props” to do it. You think it takes awhile now when you do it, but compare that to if you’ve never done it before. When you see my schedule it looks full, but luckily for me, I’ve done most of these activities before. I know where my books are that I read on certain days. I know where my Advent wreath is. I know how to make a piñata. I know to save the straw from my fall decorations for my manger. I have my Jesse tree and ornaments ready to hang. Some big advice: Don’t try to do it all your first year. Take your time. Add one thing new every year. Remember, your children need your presence, not your presents. Activities, crafts, baked goods, etc. can never substitute for your full presence to your children. I know I sometimes get so caught in the planning and carrying the activities out, that I forget the whole purpose behind them. Don’t let that happen to you. They are a means to a relationship with your child, not a substitute for a relationship.

6) Use an Advent bin. It took me a few years of scrambling through all of the Christmas decorations and through the house looking for what I needed for that day, before trying to simply store all my the Advent stuff together in one bin. This is extremely helpful if you don’t get your Christmas decorations out at the beginning of Advent. Shortly after Thanksgiving when I collect all of my fall decorations to store, I simply pull out my Advent bin, and I am ready to go. No more digging.

7) Get all of your Christmas shopping done before Advent begins. I know that this sounds crazy, but it will free you to concentrate on your other Advent activities. It will keep you out of the stores and malls. It will keep you off of the internet searching and searching for the best deals. It is probably too late for this Advent, but keep this in mind for the next year. Sure there are some great deals on Black Thursday and Friday, but I’ve found that I can get just as great of deals when I am keeping my eyes open in September and October. Spend your Thanksgiving weekend walking in the woods and playing football with the kids, not in the hectic mall. Throw all those shopping fliers away. Remember our children need presence, not presents. And if you don’t find them enough presents for under the tree, well, they probably are better off without them.

8) Final Suggestion: Only buy very thoughtful presents and only buy when necessary. I have a section in my Smart Martha’s Guide book about having fewer toys. I have many reasons spelled out there for reducing the amount of toys our kids have. Even adults need fewer toys. Do what you can to help reduce the gift buying, especially among adults. Be bold and direct if you have to, “We are trying to save up a little money this year, Sis. Let’s not buy each other Christmas presents.” I’m not saying we should be stingy. If you’ve got the means then spread the cash to your postman or babysitter or children’s teachers, but don’t just buy stuff to spread it around. Make cookies and other homemade goodies. We’ve all got too much stuff. Shopping before Advent helps us to take the time to be more thoughtful with our gifts as well as not getting caught up in the shopping frenzy that happens when we are in stores and looking through ads and buying gifts that no one really needs.

I hope you have found this advice helpful, and that it will be the beginning of a meaningful Advent and an even more beautiful Christmas.

 

Heart of the Home? October's Focus

Probably you’re thinking the kitchen or maybe yourself, but I’d like you to consider today the

master bedroom as the heart or lifeblood of your house.

Is this the condition of your master bedroom? (no pictures on this page today are of my master bedroom, like I said, it is a mess, but not this bad!--I'm cleaning tomorrow!)

I’ve read in a few places that the master bedroom should be the crowning peak of your home, your peaceful retreat, your uncluttered haven, your cleanest room, and your secret love nest! Looking at my master bedroom right now, I’m having trouble meeting any of these criteria. I’ve stored some bins in the corner that I need to sort through. I’ve got a broken blind hanging in the window. And there is a nice coating of dust on all of my dressers. Even though I try to be disciplined about putting my stuff away—also known as “Don’t put it down, put it away” or “OHIO—Only Handle It Once” rules, I still have a few pieces of jewelry sitting on my dresser, books on my nightstand, a sweater on the chair. All in all, you’re probably thinking that it’s not too bad, but since I’m a firm believer in having your master bedroom be the best room in my house, you can see that I’m slipping.

Now why would anyone want her master bedroom to be the best room of the house? After all, who sees it? Most of us don’t invite the guests to peer into our master bedrooms. We also don’t hang out there together as a family. I guess that only leaves my spouse and me. Exactly!

I remember reading in a marriage improvement book long ago that your master bedroom can reflect your attitude toward your marriage. Is it a low priority? That really stuck with me, and I’ve reflected on that thought often. I know it’s not really a reflection of a marriage, but it possibly can show some flaws in our priority about our marriage.

My master bedroom is a place of refuge for my husband and me. It is a clean, beautiful space where we can spend a few peaceful minutes at the end of every day together. This can be especially important if the rest of the house is messy and chaotic. I’ve tried to make the room an inviting place for prayer, for reading, for watching an occasional date night movie, and yes, for making love. Couples need time for refueling and time for each other. This space makes that more possible and more productive. (And yes, more fruitful—we do have ten children. ;)

When the children were young, it wasn’t unusual to find a baby and/or toddler in the bed, as well. Even an older child with nightmares or who is sick is always welcome into our room. I’m not talking about making your bedroom into an exclusive resort here. It can be all of these things, but still open to the children who need you at any given time. I just wouldn’t keep their toys here or let them watch their Dora the Explorer videos here.

Maybe you’ve never thought about your master bedroom in this way. Reflect on it awhile.

A strong marriage and a strong prayer life do wonders for the family—can our homes reflect that importance we give to both of these?

OK, Now let’s talk about some good “Martha” advice for helping us clean-up, fix-up, and fancy-up our master bedrooms.

1) Try not to use your master bedroom as a dumping ground or temporary storage place. It’s also not a great place for storing materials for hobbies or unfinished crafts. I do have a sewing machine in my bedroom since I have no other place for it, but I keep it and all the supplies nicely stored in a cabinet.

2) Matching comforter, curtains, and pillows can go a long way to making a bedroom look great. Sure these can be expensive, but looking for a sale or even used can make this purchase one with a lot of bang for the buck. I’m not much of a sewer, but I have made some lovely throw pillows from fabric store remnants and used pillows.

3) Another lesser expensive improvement would be a new coat of paint. Break away from whites and go for a complimentary color to your comforter.

4) A bigger purchase would involve new furniture. Look for some used options here. Check out Craigslist.

5) Get rid of the furniture you don’t need. If you have a nice walk-in closet, you may only need one dresser. Remember, open spaces feel cleaner.

6) Get rid of the Knick-knacks, candles, figurines, pictures that you don’t want. Don’t just put them in your bedroom because you have no other place to put them. Remember clutter attracts clutter. Clear places feel cleaner. Keep only what you really like—does it look beautiful in this space? Does it make you smile? A few simple candles that you actually do light look wonderful!

7) Having less stuff to dust around will help you keep this space cleaner. Make sure that your master bedroom takes some priority on your cleaning list. I’m not saying it should be above smelly toilets, dirty floors, and over-flowing laundry rooms, but make sure you get to it when it needs it.

8) Decide what kind of activities you’d like to easily do in your master bedroom and make that happen. If you’d like to watch an occasional movie with just your spouse in your bedroom then locate a TV and DVD player. Position these so you are comfortable watching either from your bed or perhaps you’d like a loveseat in your room. These don’t even have to be purchases, but perhaps just moving them from another location in your house. Would you like a place to read or pray? Would you like a comfy chair for this or do you want to use the bed? Where will you keep your reading material or prayer books? Just putting some thought and discussion with your spouse about these matters will help you decide. Next step is to follow through. I like to read in bed so I have a basket of reading material near my bed. (So why do I leave these out instead of putting them back into the basket? Idk.)

9) As a reminder to myself as well, OHIO—Only Handle It Once. “Don’t put it down, put it away.” It seems we get lazy about keeping things put away in our bedrooms. I will yell at the kids to keep their clothes off of the floor in their rooms, yet I have a pile in my own room. Simple habits and discipline go a long way. Remember, this is you and your husband's refuge.

10) And last, but certainly not least, hang a crucifix somewhere in your room. At the end of the day it is great to put it all at Christ's feet. When you plop into bed remember to cast all your cares to Christ. Unite your sufferings, as well as, your joys, your shortcomings, your concerns, your worries, your victories all to Christ on the cross.

And then sleep soundly!

September: Focus on Breakfast!

“[The morning offering is] of fundamental importance in the

life of each and everyone of the faithful.” JPII

1. First of all, feed the soul and start the day right. Encourage your family to make a morning offering with their breakfast grace if they don't already do this on their own when getting out of bed. This prayer could be said together if you all eat at the same time, but more often than not, it is a good habit for you and your children to do upon sitting down eating your breakfast independently. If this is new for your family, talk about it at one of your dinner times and then help your family to remember this new habit by having a morning offering available where your family eats breakfast. This can be done by simply having a morning offering prayer card on the table, or making your own table tents. I also use clear picture frames on my tables (sort of like what you see in restaurants) where you can print out the prayer and simply slide it into the frame. Copy and print these ones out or get others from online.

O Jesus, through the Immaculate Heart of Mary,
I offer you my prayers, works, joys and sufferings of this day
in union with the holy Sacrifice of the Mass
throughout the world.
I offer them for all the intentions of your Sacred Heart:
the salvation of souls, reparation for sin,
the reunion of all Christians.
I offer them for the intentions of our bishops
and of all apostles of prayer --

in particular, for those recommended by our Holy Father this month

For young children (by Robert Hugh Benson):

My God, I offer up to Thee
My soul and heart, Thine own to be;
And all I do or hear or say
And all my work and play.

2. Have a better breakfast, get out of the breakfast-box-cereal rut and save money—and get better nutrition. Most of these breakfast suggestions will not only save you money, but also deliver more nutrition. Sure, there are some very healthy box cereals out there, but if your kids will even eat those ones, you will notice that you will pay out the nose per bowl— there is usually only a few bowls per box! Here are some suggestions to perk up your breakfast.

These may not seem quite as simple as just opening up a box, but with a little planning and organizing, that small effort will reap big benefits.

1. Old Fashioned Oatmeal and Hot Cereal

This is a great standby. And my kids love it. We especially like the Old Fashion Oats, but don't mind the quick oats, either. We usually make a big pot of it and sweeten the whole pot with brown sugar. I sometimes add chopped apples while the water boils or a handfull of frozen blueberries with the oats. Even if we have just one person eating it, like here--we still use a pan. Jacob makes this on his own all of the time. He puts about an inch of water in the pot and brings to a boil. He adds some oats and turns off the stove. Viola! Yes it can be done in the microwave just as easy, but we always tend to boil it over. We don't remember to use a big enough bowl. And in keeping with the Smart Martha rules of no pans or dishes in the sink, the pan is easily washed (usually while the oatmeal cools) and put away and the bowl is rinsed and put in the dishwasher. (This is literally pennies a serving!)

We like most hot cereals; and they, too, are just as easy to make. Our favorite is Cream of Wheat or Farina. We also love yellow cornmeal/ grits with honey and milk. This is also a category where you can splurge and get some organic/very healthy hot cereals from a Whole Food's type store since they still will run so much cheaper per serving than box cereal. There are all kinds of wheat bran, bulgur, or rice hot cereal blends to try.

2. Waffles, Pancakes and French Toast

Sure, these can take a little longer and make a bigger mess, but there are a few ways to make these a little more instantaneous.

One way is to freeze a batch and just pop them in the toaster. I simply doubled the amount I made on a Saturday and flash froze them by laying them out on a cookie sheet to freeze. After they were frozen through, I put them in this ziplock bag. We simply reheat in the toaster like Eggo Waffles--but for pennies a serving and all contents healthy. The same can be done with pancakes.

A great way to use up a loaf of bread that is going stale is to make a batch of french toast with it. Flash freeze it and put it right back in it's bread bag and store in the freezer. These can be toasted or microwaved the same way as waffles.

Another way to have pancakes/waffles ready to go is to keep the batter in the refrigerator. I find most batters last a couple of days in the refrigerator before they begin to separate and look gross.

Toppings? Besides syrup-which is more sugar than I'd like them to have in the morning, I push for peanut butter and bananas or fruit spreads and cream cheese, even butter with a little cinnamon-sugar is delicious.

3. EGGS, EGGS, and EGGS!

Studies show that a high protein breakfast lasts longer than one that is mostly carbs. I also think it helps with concentration. Whenever my kids have a big, long test, I always encourage them to have eggs for breakfast. A couple of years ago I bought a cheap non-stick omelet pan which gets used several times each day. It's the perfect one-serving size which cleans up with a swish of a dishbrush and hot water. Kids over the age of 6 can make their own omelets, dippy eggs (our name for over-easy), scrambled eggs, fritatas, etc. Cheese completes their eggs! For my growing boys and husband, I usually have chopped ham or sausage patties in the freezer which gets cooked in the pan first. For me, I have spinach and tomatoes or any other veggies that I can find.

For a different way with eggs, cook up a dozen of hard-boiled eggs. A warm hard-boiled egg with a little salt and buttered toast is delicious. Here's how I do it (except I use 22 minutes instead of 12--I'll try 12 next time...) www.IncredibleEgg.com

And let's not forget the breakfast burrito. This is simply scrambled eggs, cheese, and salsa (and anything else you'd like) wrapped in a flour tortilla.

4. Muffins

Sure, you could bake some and then freeze them, but have you ever tried those Refrigerator or 6-week Muffins? It had been awhile since I had them, so I made a batch last week. The batter sits in your refrigerator for up to 6 weeks and you simply bake them on demand. Here is a basic recipe from AllRecipes.com that I used. http://allrecipes.com/recipe/six-week-bran-muffins-2/detail.aspx

I altered the recipe and used different whole grain flours including oats. I also used powdered milk and cut the sugar in half. In the past, I've used plain bran flakes for my non-raisin fans. These fresh out of the oven topped with cream cheese and jelly are great. You can obviously do lots of add-ins like, nuts, dried fruits, chocolate chips, etc.

Here's the batch I baked this morning with batter which I know won't last for six weeks, but maybe for a couple more.

5. Granola

I love homemade granola and tend to munch on it throughout the whole day. Homemade granola is usually healthier and cheaper than its store version depending on how you make it. The great thing about making it is choosing what to add. I love nuts, but sometimes if I am out, my granola goes nutless--which makes my no-nut fans happy. (and I almost never use raisins for that same reason.)

Which recipe and method? There are many--here is the one I use:

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/Megans-Granola/Detail.aspx?prop31=6

You can substitute so much for the dry ingredients--even all oats! I usually add flax, whole wheat flour, coconut or whatever I have in the pantry.

Granola bars that you get in the store are so sugary, but I've used them many times in a pinch when a child didn't have time for breakfast. Here are 2 recipes I've used often for granola/cereal bars. I wish I could make enough to keep in stock, but they disappear quickly. The 2nd one with sweetened condensed milk does have a lot of sugar, but is so easy to make and load with other healthy ingredients, I can't resist.

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/Playgroup-Granola-Bars/Detail.aspx?prop31=6

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/Easy-Granola-Bars/Detail.aspx?prop31=4

6. Smoothies

Although these are typically afterschool snacks for us, they make excellent breakfasts. I admit that I have a generic "Magic Bullet" that I got at Aldis that makes this feat very easy to make and clean up. But really, a blender isn't that much different. I always have a supply of frozen bananas in the freezer that can sweeten any smoothie without adding sugar. These are undesirable bananas that got too ripe or were bought that way from the store. Perfect for banana bread or smoothies. Flash freeze without their peels than put in a ziplock bag. Since other frozen fruit isn't cheap, I often freeze my own from in-season fruits or fruit that is going bad.

Once your fruit is picked and put in your blender, you just need some liquid. We use milk, soy milk, plain yogurt, juice, or even water. You don't really need a recipe for a smoothie, stock your freezer and use whatever you fancy. (Oh and for you really healthy people, spinach works pretty well in most smoothies without altering the taste too much.)

I hope you have enjoyed these breakfast suggestions! Stock your freezer. Do a little baking. Pray that morning offering. Take some time to make these happen. My hope is that we can start our morning looking for Christ and keep our eyes out for him all day!

August FOCUS ent Less Time

  1. Use hooks in the kids’ rooms. I just bought 2 sets of over-the-door hooks for a couple of bedrooms that needed a few more spots to hang worn jeans and hoodies. I guess it is now acceptable to wear jeans 4 or 5 times before washing. That’s kind of gross. I like 2 or 3 times as long as they don’t get food spilled on them or otherwise smell. The same goes for other pants, sweatshirts, sweaters, some blouses, and hoodies. Hooks make this possible. It may be difficult to get your kids to re-hang on hangers semi-dirty clothes, but not to plop them onto a hook. If your workout clothes don’t get drenched in sweat, you could do the same with them.

2. Use one towel per person per week. If you are clean when you dry off after your shower, your towel will also be clean. It can be re-used for a week or so as long as it can be properly dried in between. That means that every person needs a place to hang his towel. Sure, kids forget to hang up their towel. When this happens, I make sure they can’t just get another towel. Yes, I want them to use their wet, smelly towel so that they will remember next time to hang it up when they are done. I keep the extra towels and guest towels in a closet far away. If your family all uses a new towel everyday, you are creating for yourself at least one extra load of laundry per day. This is certainly not very green. It costs you money and extra wear on your towels, not to mention your valuable time. Every person in our family has his “own” towel signified by color.

This is Seth who is now 19. He still uses a yellow towel when he's home. (Not the same one!)

3. When your children reach their teens, have them do their own laundry. For my teenage boys, I simply purchased for them their own laundry baskets that sit in their rooms. When this gets full, usually once a week, they carry it down to the laundry room then wash and dry. The folded clothes go from the dryer back into the laundry basket and are carried upstairs and put away. Many teens like to be responsible for their own clothes. This way, no clothes accidentally get given to the wrong person—heaven forbid! For my daughter ( my sons never needed this), I gave her two sorting baskets for her dirty clothes so she could separate darks from lights. When either one got full, she simply washed that load. As a side note, when my teen children participate in sports, they are responsible for keeping their uniform clean and in order. Yes, I am sure that they’ve worn dirty socks and even dirty jerseys for a few games, but it’s worth it since it teaches them this bit of responsibility and frees me of this concern.

At times, they may need reminders!

4. Since there is such a large selection of clothing options available, even for those of us who shop at Thrift stores, it seems unreasonable for anyone to have clothing that needs to be ironed. There is a great selection of iron-free, washable clothes out there. Granted, I do have a few dressy items that need a touch up with an iron, but I wear these once or twice a year. Our everyday items need to be clothes that come out of the dryer looking great! If we leave them in the dryer to cool and they get wrinkled, then we either have to waste a little time by putting them back through the dryer again or by ironing them. What’s the remedy for this that will save us time? Only run the dryer when you know you will be there when it’s finished and have a place to hang up your clothes when they are done. I’ve put a hanging clothes rack in my laundry room. To save sorting out the hanging clothes, I’ve also put dividers for everyone’s clothes on the rack-like you might see in a clothing store. Instead of S, M,L, I have my children’s names.

Part of my husband's wrinkle-free wardrobe hanging on the rod in my newly painted laundry room. (It used to have a cute, country cat border--enough said.) It's a Kirkland (Costco) brand shirt.

5. When trying to follow the method above by hanging up the clothes when they come out of the dryer, have you ever had to run around looking for hangers? This wastes your time. Have a set place for hangers in your laundry room and have plenty of hangers. You will need more hangers than you have hanging clothes. You also need to tell your family members that when they wear something that was on a hanger to put that empty hanger in the dirty clothes basket with the dirty clothes. Or if you have a chute, to send the hangers down the chute. This way the hangers will end up back into the laundry room ready to be used again.

6. Bib your kid. They have some great catch-all bibs for those really messy eaters. Even the simple cotton bib can save you from having to change an entire outfit. Sure, you may have to launder the bib, but this is better and less time consuming than treating stains and pre-washing, etc. Bib for adults? Sort of, but not for eating. It’s called an apron. It may be a bit old-fashioned, but if you are baking or frying, it will also save your outfit. I especially use one when I am up to my elbows in flour or I am wearing a nice dress and cooking for the kids before an evening out or entertaining company.

( Work wonders in you Wonder Woman Apron)

7. Have a soak bucket ready. This comes in handy if you have athletes, mechanics, and boys! Mine is a small plastic garbage can that sits in my laundry room sink. You can certainly use a soak bucket without a sink. If something gets stained or dirty beyond a simple squirt of Spray-n-wash, I put it in the soak bucket, fill it with warm water, put in a ½ cup of Tide (or Oxy-clean or your favorite cleaner) and let it soak for a day or two. Dump this whole batch into your washing machine and spin dry. If it was really cruddy, you may need to rinse and repeat. Otherwise, if it looks pretty good, just wash as normal. I’m thinking this may save time scrubbing out stains or repeated washings. This works great for socks or items that have mildew.

8. Summer is for sandals and Crocs and no socks! I pretty much ban sock-wearing in the summer, except for sports (and church—but we re-wear the church socks by storing them inside of the church shoes.) Once school begins, if you have boys around the same age, get them all the same socks for their everyday use. My boys like the no-show ankle socks. I have found some stretchy ones that seem to fit a variety of foot sizes. This has reduced a lot of sorting and lost socks

9. Catch up on a novel. Learn a language. Become an expert on something. Listen to the books your teens are reading. Pray the Rosary with others. This can all be done while you are in your laundry room by having a Cd player in there and a library card. (Most libraries have great books on CDs) And trust me, this will make your time in the laundry room just zip by. It will feel like you are spending less time in there.

This is not an ad--it won't click you anywhere, but you can find these CD's and others online.

10. Lastly, remodel your laundry room. This doesn’t have to cost a lot. Re-organize. Simplify. Get a few new baskets or shelves. Get a fresh coat of paint. This will make your tasks go more smoothly and quickly. Everything should be easily accessible. No extra clutter to work around. Keep your washer and dryer clean on the outside. A wet sock out of the washer does this easily. Just rewash the sock. And like listening to a CD, being in that lovely space will feel like less time is being spent there.

Unfortunately none of these are my laundry room, but what inspiring pictures 

 

July Focus: Cleaning Tile

When the Sun is Hot--Get Down on the Cool Tile!

I saw an ad for an offer to clean tile in my junk mail. It showed the before and after shot. Pretty impressive. I decided to try and tackle my own tile. I even researched some heavy duty grout cleaners on the internet. The one that seemed most promising was expensive and had to be ordered. I settled for a less expensive one that I bought at Home Depot. It looked very promising, but proved to be dissapointing--then I remembered: Baking Soda. In the long run, it worked just as well as the harsh cleaner from Home Depot, was less expensive, and most importantly, it's not going to ruin my tile or little bare feet that go in my bathroom. This is cleaning you can get excited about! No harmful fumes. Maybe even good for your skin. (OK, that's a stretch--but I do know you can brush your teeth with it!) Look at this super-sized box I got from my grocery store.

I recommend with your money saved on the cleaner, that you purchase a grout brush to use--it stood up much better than the old toothbrush. Plus this grout brush is a must to clean around your sink faucets and toilet hinges--in that order, of course. Used with a little spray cleaner, it can really dig out the grime.

To clean your tile grout, I put some Baking Soda in a cup and added water to make a paste. I slapped this paste on a square foot area and scrubbed all the grout. When I got the whole bathroom done, I went over it several times with a wet mop, rinsing and ringing it out in the tub. Here you can see where I've scrubbed some of the grout. It actually is white again!

Was this tedious scrubbing all of those lines? Yes! Here are a couple of lessons for us to keep in mind for the future. When picking tile: 1) Use brown/gray grout and 2) Use bigger tile, like 12x12. When I had to replace the tile in my other bathroom, I followed both of these principles, and it still remains lovely with just simple mopping. Another problem that can help grout from turning black with mildew is to have a good fan in your bathroom. Keeping the air flowing keeps that mildew from growing on your caulking, as well. "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of Baking Soda. . ."

June 2011

The1/4 Challenge

What am I up to now? This is a very simple challenge for all of you for the summer or year or however long you want/need to do this. I am simply going to try to get rid of 1/4 of everything that is in my house. Yes, 1/4. I originally wanted to go with half of the stuff in my house like a true minimalist, but reality set in, and I decided that 1/4 would be difficult enough, but doable. So I have begun. And really, keeping 3/4 isn't so bad. Isn't 3/4 of an apple pie plenty? And how about 3/4 of a pizza?

Like I said, I am beginning this summer, but it will probably spill over into the fall and the rest of the year. I can see myself always looking at a shelf or cupboard in the future and saying, "Yep, 3/4 of this stuff is enough. Some things will have to go." As you can see in the picture, I need to do this at my desk. I've got an action bin with far too much stuff in it. I'll get to that tomorrow. . .

I've actually started in my walk-in closet a couple of weeks ago. I went through all of my hanging up pants (my dress pants) and got rid of the ones I knew I didn't want. I am also turning all of the hangers around on my dress pants so that they are hung up backwards. (After I wear the pants, I turn the hanger around and hang them normally to signal that these pants have been worn.) If I haven't worn the pants by Christmas, no matter what, they've got to go. (I don't wear a lot of dress pants in the summer, so I really won't start wearing them until fall.) I'd like to see this rack get about 1/4 less by Christmas. I've already done my t-shirts. Yes, I still have a lot, but they are the staple of my wardrobe, my "work uniform."

I have been doing 1 or 2 spots a day--remember, "a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." If this is too much for you to do each day, dedicate some time on the weekends to this task.

Since I like the look of less furniture and less knick-knacks, I decided to apply the purging 1/4 to all of the areas of my house, not just the shelves or drawers. This is a small example: my fireplace. It may not look that much better, but the room as a whole feels lighter with 1/4 less stuff in it, plus my son who has to dust this room will surely appreciate how much easier it will be to dust the hearth--one swoosh with the broom!

I just finished my vitamins/medicine cabinet in the kitchen--this used to be packed full. Now that I know all of the vitamins and medicine that I have, I will be more conscientious next time I want to purchase more. (Those plastic step orgainizers for kitchen shelves work great for vitamins and your spices.)

A task like this one or like cleaning out your utensil drawer takes less than 10 minutes!

A couple 1/4 clean-outs like this a day and your house will begin to feel so much lighter.

Less is More! Simple is Sweet! Uncluttered is unequaled!

 

March 2011 

Since March is National Frozen Food Month, I thought we would focus our efforts this month on organizing, cleaning, uncluttering and simplifying our frozen foods. Since most of the nation is like a deep freeze right now, (yes, we are even cold here in South Carolina) it seems like a good time to contemplate our frozen food dilemas.

If you haven't cleaned out your deep freezer or chest freezer, or even your freezer in your refrigerator for awhile, February is a good month to do it because you can simply unload all of your frozen items in a box and put them on the porch. Since I am too lazy to haul them the whole way out there, I just unload them all into a cooler and work quickly.

(If you've got the kind of freezer that needs to have all of the built up ice and frost melted out, you might want to put the food in coolers and put it outside in the cold, unplug the plug, and wait a day for the freezer to defrost. Or if you don't want to wait, you can try a blow dryer--although I've read that it is not recommended, I've done it many times and it works great. I've also heard of putting in pots of very hot water and closing the door for awhile and repeating until it is all defrosted.)

After you've wiped it out with a warm washcloth, you are now ready for the unclutter and organize steps. By unclutter, I mean get rid of the frozen food that you know you will not be eating. These are those half-opened popsickles that were stuck to the bottom or some mystery stew that it totally frosty--although, I'd probably stick it in a pot of hot water and see what kind of soup it could turn into.

For the most part, I can keep my freezer part of the refrigerator simply organized. I put meats on one shelf, frozen fruit on another, desserts on another, etc. My deep freezer doesn't organize as easily. What I've tried to do is keep all of the other frozen food such as frozen meals (either bought or leftovers), bags of veggies, ice cream, and other meats in this freezer.

 

To keep track of what is in there, I use a dry erase board that I keep on my refrigerator. In theory, everything that is in the deep freezer is written on that board. If you've just emptied out your deep freezer, now would be a good time to start this list. If you don't have a dry erase board, just use a piece of paper for now. Everytime I buy new food that goes in the freezer, or even freeze some leftovers, I write that on my dry erase board. When I get something out of the freezer, I simply wipe it off.

Another way I use this board is for meal planning. I look at the board before planning my meals for the next week. If something has been on the board for awhile, I try to incorporate that into next week's menu.

A warning! Don't put this board where little children can reach it. They will erase it. Also, don't stress out if you get completely off track with your board. It is hard to get all family members to remember to mark off the frozen pizza they ate when they got home from school the other day. Just like so many other things in our life, we have to keep up with it, and when we get really behind, we just start over. It isn't unusual for me to wipe off the board completely and get one of my older kids to do a "freezer inventory" for me as one of his chores.

I find it very handy to have certain staples always available in my freezer as well as emergency meals. To have these all written on the board saves me a lot of guessing. It can also save me a lot of money by stocking up on hamburger or mozzarella cheese or whatever when it is on sale. When I plan my menu, I can keep in mind which staples I have stored away that I got at bargain prices and use these. When inventory gets low, I can look for sale opportunities to restock. Also, if you've bought whole cows or pigs, using this list on your board is a good way to keep track of this meat as well.

By having emergency meals,( I mean frozen complete dinners that can just be thrown in the oven or a pot--we have chilli like this a lot) I can resist the temptation to go out for fast food or spend too much money at a restaurant when I just "don't feel like cooking."