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September Newsletter
( Just a few tidbits and food for thought.) 

 4 Smart Martha Tips of the Month:

 

1. While you are setting up your schedule, try using a calendar on your computer.  Get into the habit of checking it every morning and/or evening before bed.  Make as many hard copies as you need.  Put one on your bulletin board, one in your planner. Give one to your spouse, etc.

I used to use Google calendar.  It is very easy, quick and simple to use.  I am now using Cozi.com.  It is not as quick or simple as Google, but it has a couple of other features I like to use: the to do lists and the journal.  You can also transfer all your Google or Yahoo appointments to the Cozi Calendar.

 

2. And while we easily are checking our schedule every morning on the computer, we can also read about the Saint of the Day.  Why not start your day off with the encouraging stories and words of these great men and women?  It comes into your inbox daily.  http://www.americancatholic.org/e-News/Default.aspx#SaintofTheDay

 

3. But we either need to stop there or set a limit for the amount of time we spend doing our emails or surfing the web.  The real world is happening around us.  Don't miss those real people around you who need real attention and real conversations.  

For me, emails are such an important part of managing my  "home business"--soccer practice changes, school news, home school co-op happenings, prayer concerns,carpool rides, etc. but even though email saves me a lot of time, I know I can get caught up and end up losing valuable family time.  I try to only read and respond to my emails first thing in the morning before the school day begins or late in the evening after the younger children have gone to bed.  We need to know ourselves and set our own limits.

 

4. Plan ahead to use your slow cooker on your busiest day every week.  Check out    http://allrecipes.com/HowTo/Slow-Cookers-Still-Hot/Detail.aspx.   to spruce up your menu!

AllReceipes.com has over 400 slow cooker recipes that are easy to find.  I like using the website for other recipes, as well.  I find the reviews very helpful.

Slow Cooker Italian Beef for Sandwiches (From AllRecipes.com)

INGREDIENTS

  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 3 cups water
  • 1 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 1 teaspoon dried oregano
  • 1 teaspoon dried basil
  • 1 teaspoon onion salt
  • 1 teaspoon dried parsley
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1 bay leaf
  • 1 (.7 ounce) package dry Italian-style salad dressing mix (or not--just double the other spices)
  • 1 (5 pound) rump roast

DIRECTIONS

  1. Combine water with salt, ground black pepper, oregano, basil, onion salt, parsley, garlic powder, bay leaf, and salad dressing mix in a saucepan. Stir well, and bring to a boil. (I just mix it together in a bowl?)
  2. Place roast in slow cooker, and pour salad dressing mixture over the meat.
  3. Cover, and cook on Low for 10 to 12 hours, or on High for 4 to 5 hours. When done, remove bay leaf, and shred meat with a fork.

 Serve on crusty bread with mozzarella cheese. Or roasted red peppers. . . yum!

 

Of course I vary this tremendously depending on our mood and which ingredients we have.  Use Mexican seasonings for a great burrito filling.  Or thicken sauce at end with corn starch dissolved in cold water and serve over rice.  Throw in some vegetables. . .It's really that easy.

     I just love back to school time!  I love buying new markers, crayons, paper, binders, etc.  And yes, I’m sure I also love it because it has to do with getting the kids back to school.  Not that I don’t enjoy my little darlings, but by summer’s end, they seem far too idle and antsy.  I am happy to see them on a regular schedule which consists of more than just sleep, eat, play, and occasionally a few chores. And this is true for both my home schooled children and my children who go to another school, including those going off to college. 

 

     But another reason I like back to school time is because it is a chance for new beginnings and starting over.  I use this new beginning time to try a new approach to chores, to review rules for phones, video games, etc, and to develop new habits. Just recently, for example, I redid our chore chart.  If you have attended my seminar, you may remember that we have a chore chart that states everyone’s daily and weekly chores.  For simplicity sake and quality control, we don’t rotate these chores.  However, at back to school time, I switch things up a bit.  I add or subtract chores where needed.  And with another child off to college this year, we had to shuffle things around.  For another example concerning habits we are now trying to insist on only eating in the kitchen.  You may remember this rule from my seminar.  Although this is a clearly stated Kiser rule, we tend to get lazy about this as time goes on.  We use this back to school time as a launching point to get back into good habits, like eating only in the kitchen.  "And please put that dish in the dishwasher when you are through."  Maybe you can start your own campaign about kids taking shoes off at the door, picking up their clothes, or not leaving their backpacks on the kitchen counter.  Now you can see why a Martha such as myself really likes this idea of starting over. 

 

      I also notice now that schedules are more regular, (fuller, but regular) I can schedule a dinnertime that will accommodate most of the family.  I seem more disciplined to make a menu and to get the shopping done.  I guess that’s just my way of “going back to school.”

 

     You probably do similar “back to school” activities.  But let’s not forget that we also may need to start over or begin again with regard to the “Mary” things.  When we are setting new schedules, do we allow time for prayer, study, or service, or is our schedule filled with soccer, soccer, carpool and piano lessons?   Can we find a time that we can pray together as a family, even if it is something as simple as a short prayer as we go out the door for school or ride to there together in the car?  I am sure you have many ideas and convictions about this. Let’s just take a little time to figure out what we need do. (Try to listen to the Holy Spirit.) And then let’s have the courage, discipline and energy to carry it out. 

 

For wisdom and encouragement during this starting again time, Martha and Mary of Bethany, pray for us.  
 
Upcoming Seminar: Columbia, SC
St. Joseph's Parish
Saturday, September 19       9:00-2:00
$30 which includes lunch and workbook
For more info or to register: StJoeDRE@aol.com
 
 
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